In Book VIII of the Nicomachean Ethics, Aristotle distinguishes friendships based on usefulness, pleasure and good character. In the fullest form, friends wish each other well because of the other’s worth: the person matters even when they offer no immediate advantage. [1]
The Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy explains that this care involves feelings and actions: celebrating a friend’s success and supporting their good. Here is an example invented by our editors: helping someone prepare for an interview, knowing that the job could take them far away. [2]
Take this with youOur prompt: think of a favour with nothing expected in return. For once, the relationship spreadsheet can stay closed.
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- Nicomachean Ethics — Book VIII The Internet Classics Archive · Massachusetts Institute of Technology · accessed 12 Sept 2026
- Friendship Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy · accessed 12 Sept 2026
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